I just saw this on one of my support group discussion boards.

"As a mother, I have always felt that it was my job to identify what my child needs and give it to them. Sometimes those needs are simple and straightforward as clean laundry, a healthy meal, a hand to cross the street safely. Her needs were not like those of my other children. She needed us to give her a safe and peaceful transition from one world to the next. Carrying her to term did that for me and it gave me the opportunity to mother her until she didn't need me anymore. That knowledge made it infinitely easier to make peace with her death."

I absolutely wanted to earmark that. 

I need to remember. I'm doing this for him.